What do you do when your mother is the cause of your anxiety? My mother was always unhappy and abusive to us as kids. My siblings have all but cut her off and moved far away. They tell me to do the same. In fact, everyone in her life has abandoned her because she is so difficult. Even my husband can't stand to be with her. So I am the only person she has left, and I can't bring myself to abandon her. But when I am with her, she gives me so much anxiety. She never acknowledges how much effort I make to see her and all she does is complain and push me to spend even more time with her. What can I do? Please help!
I have been thinking about trying medication but it gets such a bad rap that I am hesitant. What are your thoughts? First, we want everyone to remember that WE ARE NOT DOCTORS. Anything we say about medication is based on experiences other Anxiety Sisters have shared with us, literature reviews, and our own trial and […]
My family does not get along and it is very stressful. It causes me to have severe anxiety. I have tried tuning them out, but it does not work. I find myself in between warring family members. My question is about how I can manage my anxiety over the upcoming holidays. I really cannot handle […]
I have panic attacks and I tend to worry about everything to an extreme amount. A year ago, I started medication which has helped so much. Recently I started to go to therapy and I was also diagnosed with PTSD from my childhood. I had a mother that gave me the silent treatment for days […]
My mom died a few months ago and I am devastated. In the last few weeks, I have begun to have panic attacks, or at least that is what my doctor calls them. I’ve never had these attacks before. Why now? First of all, we are so sorry to hear about your mother’s death. We have been through it: My mother died 12 years ago, and I am still struggling to process the loss.